{"id":47848,"date":"2023-02-27T03:05:00","date_gmt":"2023-02-27T08:05:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/?p=47848"},"modified":"2023-06-27T14:49:01","modified_gmt":"2023-06-27T18:49:01","slug":"having-a-second-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/2023\/02\/27\/having-a-second-child\/","title":{"rendered":"My Thoughts On Having A Second Child"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child-480x640.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-47849\" width=\"839\" height=\"1119\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child-480x640.jpg 480w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child-1200x1600.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 839px) 100vw, 839px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Growing up, the thought of having children was something that I truly never questioned. I was baby obsessed from day one and longed to be a mother from very early on. My childhood drawings often depicted toddlers waddling around, sweet happy family homes with little ones aplenty. And I did my best to convince my cousins and friends to play dolls and house with me until I was far older than I&#8217;d like to admit. For the majority of my life, I pictured myself with no less than four babies of my own. And the moment I found out I was pregnant <em>(<a href=\"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/2019\/10\/18\/first-trimester-questions-answered\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">here<\/a>, if you&#8217;d like) <\/em>I felt as if my deepest desires and greatest wishes had been granted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So when my daughter&#8217;s second birthday rolled around and the urge to procreate once more was still absolutely <em>non<\/em>-existent, it threw me into a bit of an identity crisis of sorts. The thought of being responsible for yet another life &#8211; a <em>second<\/em> child &#8211; felt literally impossible. I was, admittedly, <em>still<\/em> not sleeping for longer than three hour stretches at a time* &#8211; something that has since been resolved, but definitely not forgotten. And for a really long time I convinced myself that maybe we <em>were<\/em> just one and <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">done<\/span>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\">SHOP THE POST: <div class=\"shopthepost-widget\" data-widget-id=\"4923227\">\r\n                <script type=\"text\/javascript\" language=\"javascript\">\r\n                    !function(d,s,id){\r\n                        var e, p = \/^http:\/.test(d.location) ? 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And that maybe, just maybe I wasn&#8217;t completely done, I just wasn&#8217;t ready for a second child <em>yet.<\/em> The relief that washed over me when I decided to undo everything that I had been pre-programmed to believe was immense. To allow myself the gift of daydreaming about what life could look like with a four year age gap, a six year age gap, and heck, even a ten year age gap instantly felt so much better on so many levels. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/line.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12469\" width=\"480\" height=\"14\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/line.jpg 480w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/line-300x8.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h4 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\">you can find more personal posts <a href=\"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/category\/lifestyle\/personal-posts\/\">right here<\/a><br><\/h4>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"480\" height=\"14\" src=\"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/line.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12469\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/line.jpg 480w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/line-300x8.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>It seems silly now in retrospect, but it truly never really occurred to me that we could talk about having another when my daughter is ten, if we&#8217;d like. And that there would be pros and cons to any and every age gap. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Though we still don&#8217;t know if a second child is for us &#8211; there is so much to be said for having just one and doing a <em>really<\/em> phenomenal job&#8230; I feel so much peace from taking the pressure off of this arbitrary timeline I didn&#8217;t even realize I was holding onto. I love the idea of simply seeing how things unfold. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child_6-480x718.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-47854\" width=\"839\" height=\"1255\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child_6-480x718.jpg 480w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child_6-201x300.jpg 201w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child_6-768x1149.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/having-a-second-child_6.jpg 1003w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 839px) 100vw, 839px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>All that said, one thing that I do find helpful is to picture our distant future. How many people do I see sitting around our Christmas dinner table? The reality is that the baby years are so short and fleeting, so to make a permanent decision based on a couple of potential hard years is something to be considered. After all, we will know our children as adults for far longer than we\u2019ll ever know them as children (both heartbreaking and relieving all in the same breath.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I last casually mentioned a few of my thoughts and fears on Instagram stories a few months ago, I was inundated with people who were in the same boat. So if you, too, find yourself on the fence, I encourage you to do some digging. Try to figure out what&#8217;s yours, and what&#8217;s not. And give yourself some time and space to simply not have the final answer at this very moment. The not knowing isn&#8217;t particularly easy for me, but I will tell you it&#8217;s a whole lot more peaceful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>*<em>My daughter, bless her soul, was a really terrible sleeper &#8211; she never got out of the newborn phase, waking just about every 2-3 hours every night until just after her second birthday. It was rough. But we made it and live to tell the tale!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/5AAE98C8-8917-41FD-BEF9-0C79528D918A-480x722.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-47860\" width=\"840\" height=\"1264\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/5AAE98C8-8917-41FD-BEF9-0C79528D918A-480x722.jpg 480w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/5AAE98C8-8917-41FD-BEF9-0C79528D918A-199x300.jpg 199w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/5AAE98C8-8917-41FD-BEF9-0C79528D918A-768x1156.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/5AAE98C8-8917-41FD-BEF9-0C79528D918A-1021x1536.jpg 1021w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/5AAE98C8-8917-41FD-BEF9-0C79528D918A-1063x1600.jpg 1063w, https:\/\/jacquelynclark.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/5AAE98C8-8917-41FD-BEF9-0C79528D918A.jpg 1083w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\">SHOP THE POST: <div class=\"shopthepost-widget\" data-widget-id=\"4923227\">\r\n                <script type=\"text\/javascript\" language=\"javascript\">\r\n                    !function(d,s,id){\r\n                        var e, p = \/^http:\/.test(d.location) ? 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